Friday, July 30, 2004
Get-To-Know-You Conversations
Well, I guess if you read my last post your now expecting a date report. So as not to disappoint, here it is. We had set the date up to meet at Chili's at 7pm. I actually got there early. My violin lesson ended at 6:30 and it took me 20 minutes to get there. So I decided to get a table. As I am sitting there I get a water and patiently await her arrival, with nerves of course. At about seven I see this rather large women being led to a table. My heart pounds -- please don't be her, please don't be her. She's not looking around so I figure it wasn't her. At about 7:15ish I decide, well maybe she's here I just don't recognize her. And then I look all the way across the crowded restaurant and see what I think looks like her talking on her cellphone sitting at the bar. So I decide to go sit a couple of seats away from her at the bar. I then proceeded to call her. She hangs up her phone and sees it ringing again. I look at her with my cellphone as we both say "hello" at the same time. Then it's like - we're off. We had a very good get-to-know-you conversation that lasted about 2 hours. I am good at those, as long as she can talk a lot I am home free. There are always standard no-brainer questions that take up a lot of time. If she talks more than usual then I get a good feeling about it. She is beautiful, smart, funny, has a very good outgoing personality, is a Christian, volunteers for the red cross, is a nurse about to go to graduate school, and loves guitar. I got some good signs - she was playing with hair a lot. We shall see how things progress. The date just kind of ended when we were finished eating and the meal was paid for. I asked for a second date. She said "we'll see". So you never know. I could've done something wrong, it's really hard to say. I don't believe in leagues, but if it's true she might be out of my league. I remember back in college I went out with this girl who I had a similar rapport with. But she never called me afterwards. I found out a year later that she had other things going on at the time and we actually ended up becoming good friends. So I know not to expect anything, but it's always fun to dream.
Thought of the day
Witness: Striker was the squadron leader. He brought us in real low, but he couldn't handle it.
Prosecuting Attorney:Buddy couldn't handle it? Was Buddy one of your crew?
Witness: Right, Buddy was the bombardier, but it was Striker who couldn't handle it. And he went to pieces.
Prosecuting Attorney:Andy went to pieces?
Witness: No, Andy was the navigator, he was all right. Buddy went to pieces. It was awful how he came unglued.
Prosecuting Attorney: Howie came unglued?
Witness: Oh no, Howie was a rock, the best tail-gunner in the outfit. Buddy came unglued.
Prosecuting Attorney: And he bailed out?
Witness: No, Andy hung tough, Buddy bailed out! How we survived, was a miracle.
Prosecuting Attorney: Then Howie survived?
Witness: No, 'fraid not. We lost Howie the next day.
--Airplane II
Thought of the day
Witness: Striker was the squadron leader. He brought us in real low, but he couldn't handle it.
Prosecuting Attorney:Buddy couldn't handle it? Was Buddy one of your crew?
Witness: Right, Buddy was the bombardier, but it was Striker who couldn't handle it. And he went to pieces.
Prosecuting Attorney:Andy went to pieces?
Witness: No, Andy was the navigator, he was all right. Buddy went to pieces. It was awful how he came unglued.
Prosecuting Attorney: Howie came unglued?
Witness: Oh no, Howie was a rock, the best tail-gunner in the outfit. Buddy came unglued.
Prosecuting Attorney: And he bailed out?
Witness: No, Andy hung tough, Buddy bailed out! How we survived, was a miracle.
Prosecuting Attorney: Then Howie survived?
Witness: No, 'fraid not. We lost Howie the next day.
--Airplane II
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Alex was out of your league (all of ours...) Sounds like a definite maybe. The "We'll see" comment leaves things way open. I wish there were a way to cut through all the crap and get to the point. You know maybe they would either jump us that night or walk out before you had to pay for the check. I mean everything I hear is that a woman decides wheather or not they are going to sleep with you within the first 2 minutes of meeting.
"All we need is Love"
Mr. Turentine
"All we need is Love"
Mr. Turentine
Sounds like it went OK to me. The "We'll see" line was either a flity tactic, or an escape route....hopefully the first. I can almost picture your face when she said it...kinda like Ralphie's face when Santa said,"You'll shoot your eye out kid." If all went according to your story, it would seem like she'll want to go out again. Then you can continue to dazzle her with your charming ways. I wouldn't worry about it either way. Good Job.
Peety
"Women, can't live with em, pass the beer nuts."--Norm Peterson at "Cheers"
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Peety
"Women, can't live with em, pass the beer nuts."--Norm Peterson at "Cheers"
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